Until next time . . .

Last week Baby Boy had surgery. Nothing major, as he does have this same procedure every year. Mom #2 and I always anxiously await biopsy results. For the first time in literally 10 years the biopsy found ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. We're so excited! We feel like we have just witnessed our very own private Christmas miracle. There is usually a little something, often a lot of something, but we are extremely grateful for absolutely nothing. Hurray! I hope this positive trend is indicative of our fortune for the new year.
Even though no one in this family is Italian or Catholic, Mom #2 and I decided to have a Feast of Seven Fishes for Christmas Eve dinner this year. Why? Because we like seafood. It's yummy! We felt like doing something a little different from the same old thing . . . our families were VERY against any Christmas change in the Christmas day meal, so we're having our own pre-Christmas whatever-the-heck-we-want celebration on Christmas Eve with our family and Mom #2's daughter, son-in-law, and the three Fairies.
I have a 40 point cleaning list posted on the pantry door. All of those items must be done before a single guest is allowed to set foot in this house. We got about half of them done today, so that puts us right on schedule. Mom #2 and I have done almost all of our assignments. Baby Boy is procrastinating. Oh, the joys of being 18. If he thinks he'll enjoy one. single. moment of Christmas without getting his assigned cleaning duties completed, he has another think coming, I assure you.
Finally, Baby Boy experienced some natural consequences today. Because he procrastinated so much ordering a gift for his *ahem* *cough* girlfriend *cough* and it just got here today, he had to pay almost three times what I consider a reasonable amount to get it to her by Christmas, since she's not exactly local. Now he sees why I preach "The early bird gets the worm," all day and all night. Once again, the joys of being 18.
Nothing earth shattering. Just wanted to catch y'all up on everything that has been going on with us this Holiday Season.
I wish you all love, peace, and prosperity in everything you say, think, and do this Holiday Season!
Until next time . . .
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Labels: Christmas, family life, food
Well I'd like to say that I successfully completed two VERY intense presentations at school over the last couple of weeks. One in Spanish, OMG, that was tough. The other was presenting a research poster on a project I've been working on all semester. It was so intense and scary. I hate speaking in front of groups, especially when I'm supposed to be an expert on something and I feel like a blubbering idiot on the subject, LOL. But look, I'm still alive . . . I'm battling hell week right now, but that's ok, after this, it'll be over.
One reason I was able to get through the last week was because of some great advice and just a general friendly listening ear from one of my very best blogging buddies, Freakmom. Thanks to her years of experience speaking in front of groups, she really helped me calm my nerves and get the job done. I was all ready to send her a thank-you email, when something super special showed up in my mailbox.
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Labels: Christmas, just for fun, Mom #1 Community College, Mom #1 University, photo
We had a wonderful holiday and hope your family did as well!!!
Big sighs of relief until another holiday rolls around. Enjoy a few photos from our celebration.
Off to relax and enjoy my miraculously-still-spotless house!!
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Labels: Christmas, extended family, family life, photo, video
. . . is how you ease back into blogging after an extended absence, No?
Did anyone see the Lunar Eclipse? When we went to bed last night, it was too cloudy to see much of anything, but around 3 o'clock this morning, it was very red and super cool. Insomnia has its privileges.
Baby Boy and I finished our Fall semesters successfully. Whew! I took 15 hours this semester, and let me just say that was too many. Housework, schoolwork, sanity in general . . . it all suffered. I'll be pulling back to part time in the spring. Well . . . not exactly part time, but less than 15 hours. Let's just say that.
Great news! I finally received my acceptance letter to my first choice university. I have one more semester at the community college and then I'm headed for the Big Time. I think Baby Boy is going to take another 2 or 3 semesters before he's ready to transfer. He has a very strategic plan.
I'm still trying to get motivated for Christmas.
My sister bought a new house and graciously hosted Thanksgiving Dinner there, but it looks like it's back over here for Christmas Eve Dinner for Mom #2's daughter and her brood and Christmas Day Dinner for my family this year.
I won't bore you with all the details, but I have extreme entertaining anxiety, and I am not looking forward to any of it. I hate holidays, but I've already got the house-cleaning list up on the white board. Grab a pair of rubber gloves and come on over if you have any free time.
Did y'all see Fabio win Survivor? I thought he was so cute during the season, but on the reunion show, I didn't really care for his haircut. I liked it better long. Not that he's asking me for any styling tips now that he has a million dollars. I could use a donation though, so if any of you know him personally, send him by my house, LOL.
OK, I think that's all for now. I'll try not to be such a stranger.
Until next time . . .
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Labels: Baby Boy Community College, Christmas, just for fun, Mom #1 Community College, Thanksgiving
In case you were wondering, yes, I did survive Christmas.
I definitely think I'll plan a more low-key holiday next year, as I was so spazzed out that I could barely enjoy myself. Mom #2 really wanted lots of family around this Christmas, so I guess we'll have to manage a way to take turns so we can both enjoy our holidays. I'm taking suggestions if anyone has a workable solution. Maybe one of my New Year's Resolutions will be to be more laid-back in general so that I don't obsess over house cleaning when people come to visit. After all, it's mostly family and they all know and love us whether the house is spotless or not.
Of course, I've come to that conclusion only after putting Baby Boy and Mom #2 through high-holy-heck in the house cleaning department. Hindsight, you know.
I hope everyone has and continues to have a wonderful holiday. Ours was lovely and frankly, I'm glad it's over. Kind of like a roller coaster ride . . . the anticipation is delicious, the experience is dramatic, and the after glow is oh-so-delightful. *HAPPY * SIGH*
On the homeschool front, I guess it's time to wrap up the first semester and label our hits and misses . . . so without further ado . . .
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Labels: Christmas, homeschool, weekly report
Here's a list of things that need to get done before we can consider this a successful Christmas.
This is a list for everyone in the house to work from, not just me, although I think we can all agree that I'm the most psychotic and anal retentive serious about making sure it all gets done.
During Holiday season, I generally do the majority of the cleaning and Mom #2 does the majority of the cooking. I have no patience for meals that take more than an hour or so . . . so everyone lives to die another day benefits from me not being in the kitchen during this time of year.
Oh, and if you're wondering why some or all of this wasn't done in advance instead of being saved for the last minute, the answer's simple:
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Labels: Christmas, extended family, family life
Yesterday Baby Boy and I drove into town, which I rarely do, and ended up spending the entire day out and about.We started out with our homeschool group Game Day. Let me tell you, there is nothing more heartwarming than listening to 10 to 15 teenagers playing board games and drinking hot chocolate making so much noise that the Moms almost have to leave the room. They played Apples to Apples, I Doubt That, and some other made up games that only they know the rules to. We Moms had fun too sitting and chatting and not worrying about where our children were or what they were doing, because we could see them right there.
After Game Day, we went out to lunch and had some delicious Mexican food. More teenage noise. We Moms wanted to relax and enjoy our lunches, but the kids forced us to hurry it up because they wanted to walk over to the park (which is really just a field) so they could toss the Ultimate disc around a little bit. Once again, we Moms were regulated to a park bench to sit and watch the whole shebang. Baby Boy has a little bit of a chest cough, so somehow he managed to convince the entire group that standing still and playing catch would be way more fun than a full out game of Ultimate Frisbee. Luckily for him because, I told him that if he started running, diving and jumping . . . he would be homeward bound. I don't want him getting a full-on chest cold the week of Christmas.
Finally, we took another walk to the holiday Festival of Lights. It was so beautiful and such a fantastic time. We parked about a mile away so that we could 1) have free parking, 2) not get gridlocked by all of the traffic, and 3) leave whenever we wanted to. It was a stroke of genius, if we do say so ourselves. It was a lovely brisk night, perfect for a nighttime stroll to the park. We all had a great time looking at the lights and listening to the various holiday music. There were local bands around every corner performing their various interpretations of the holidays. Long live diversity!
After we had looked at all the lights, the kids actually took over the play scape including the swings, slides, castle and moat. It's a good thing that it was dark outside or I'm sure we would have encountered dirty looks from the preschool Moms. I guess something about it being dark made everything more exciting and "teenagery" because they all let loose and had a great time. It was so funny to watch, because, as the Moms of teenagers know very well, they spend so much time acting too cool to move or speak that it's rare to see them run, jump, play and just let loose. It did all of our hearts a lot of good and we ended up spending an extra hour or so there after we had finished with the festival just watching our teen group play freeze tag, king of the castle and other childlike games. Hilarious!
We came home and had a delicious barbecue chicken dinner prepared by our very own Mom #2. I'm so sorry she missed the good time, but I am glad she had that hot delicious dinner waiting. After all of that fun, we were ravenous for a good meal.
We had such a fabulous day! With Baby Boy growing up so fast and many of the students in our homeschool group making college plans (although we Moms are seriously planning on holding things together as a homeschool alumni group since most of our teens will be doing time at the community college before actually going away to school), I get a little nostalgic as I know days like this will be fewer and farther in between.
Don't get me started on Christmas just yet. Apparently our Thanksgiving dinner was such a roaring success that we are recreating the event two more times, once for a Christmas Eve dinner and another big gathering on Christmas Day. I really need a nice, low key, immediate family only day to get me ready to deal with the hustle and bustle of gift wrapping, cooking, cleaning and . . . more cleaning. I guess today will have to be that day . . . all the rest starts tomorrow.
Happy Holidays to all of you!
Until next time . . .
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Labels: Christmas, homeschool, just for fun, photo
Since we never get snow in this part of Texas, we like to make a little Winter Wonderland of our own around the Holiday Season.
Since you've already dropped in, why not dust off your feet and take a tour?
Go ahead and hum Winter Wonderland to yourself while you enjoy the attractions. It'll seem more real, if you do. I don't like blogs with music, so be sure to hum nice and loudly.
We really enjoyed having you. Thanks so much for dropping by!
Until next time . . .
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Labels: Christmas, just for fun, photo
This is all that's left to represent Christmas Season 2008 and Baby Boy and Mom #2 are getting ready to take it down to the storage unit right now. Yes, I'm one of those people. We practically had to renovate the whole place to get all of the Christmas stuff up; which of course has to be done in reverse to get it all down again.
We ate our black-eyed peas with the celebration chopsticks that SabrinaT sent us from Japan, so we're all set in the superstitious good-luck department, LOL.
This morning Mom #2 is on her way back to work and Baby Boy and I are getting ready to jump into our schoolwork all the way in the deep in. We've been doing a little school "lite" for the past couple of weeks just to keep our brains nice and sharp but now we're going back to cooking with gas. Sizzle!
I've made my usual resolution to lose lots of weight and start exercising much more regularly. . . I'm not sure if black-eyed peas are conducive to that goal or not, but it doesn't matter because I hate them and won't be eating them anymore until New Years Day 2010, LOL. Maybe I should continue using those chopsticks, because it sure was a workout trying to get food onto them and I was all worn out way before all of my food was gone ;-).
I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday season, or continues to have one, if yours isn't quite over yet.
I hope getting back into the swing of things doesn't hurt too badly. I'm a bit of a night owl and all three of us have been sleeping in every single morning . . . so I'm already hurting a little bit, and since I don't drink coffee - - I have to wait for my natural stimulants to kick in . . . so I'm waiting . . . and waiting . . . and waiting, LOL.
Have a great week and a fantabulous 2009.
In the words of my favorite late night host from seasons past, Arsenio Hall,
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Labels: Christmas, family life, homeschool, New Years, photo
Over the past 6 or 7 months our family has been somewhat quietly enduring a crisis situation.
Baby Boy has several health conditions that affect his life daily; however, we do not dwell on the negative - we remain positive and encourage him and ourselves to live our lives to the fullest.
We've made several trips to the doctor's office, to various lab facilities and finally a couple of weeks ago, as you know, Baby Boy had to have a little bit of surgery. I guess I can tell you now, he had a series of three biopsies.
* * * I'll take this moment and just mention right here and now that I am the kind of parent who leaves . . . shall we say . . . an impression. For better or for worse, once medical staff has met me, I'm rarely forgotten. I'm not pushy or rude, just a tireless advocate for Baby Boy, if you know what I mean. I have an extremely strong Mama Bear complex. * * *
So . . . we've had to endure I don't know how many series of blood tests, another series of fairly invasive tests that Baby Boy won't let me tell you about, a probe test (don't ask), and finally the three biopsies. Every test was more stressful than the last AND we kept getting inconclusive results. It's been frustrating and somewhat paralyzing as we've just been sort of "marking time" in a daze waiting to hear some real results of all of this hard work.
Well . . . on Christmas Eve, while everyone else was at home with their families cooking and shopping and enjoying the hustle and bustle of the season, a very sweet nurse took time out of her day to give me a phone call.
These were her words:
"I was on my way home and we're going to be closed for a few days over the Christmas break, but I noticed that Baby Boy's results came back and I remembered how concerned you and Mom #2 were, so I thought I'd go ahead and call you. All of his biopsies came back crystal clear. He's fine. You don't need a follow up appointment. Come back in for a check-up in 6 months, and you don't have to put it on your calender, I'll give you a call. Have a Merry Christmas."
*SIGH*
It's finally over.
Merry Christmas!
Until next time . . .
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This week has been spent winding down from all the holiday hype and un-decorating the house.
Everything seems a little empty and plain looking compared to the big colorful collection of Christmas decorations we had around here. It sure takes a little getting used to again. Every time I go into the living room, the dining room, or the bathroom, I keep thinking "Something is missing." But it's just the lack of festive decor. Ho Hum. I guess that's the extent of my after holiday blahs. The holidays were really great around here considering all the financial woes we had this past year, so I have absolutely nothing but gratitude for the season, no blahs here.
This morning I've been trying to get my lesson plan together for next week. It seems to be in working order. I think I'm ready to hit the ground running on Monday.
Now getting up and ready on Monday morning is going to be a real chore. Mom #2 has been getting up this week for work, and I get up with her to get her breakfast and such, but Baby Boy has been sleeping until one or two in the afternoon. I know I should probably be slowly working him into getting up earlier, so as not to shock his system on Monday, but I guess it's too late for that. I've been kind of enjoying the peace and quiet I get in the mornings since Mom #2 is at work and Baby Boy has been sleeping in. Yikes! Am I aloud to admit that? Well, I guess I already did. Anyway, it was nice, but now it's over anyway...so LOL.
Anyway, I'm not feeling too insightful or even thoughtful today. I just wanted to post a little something so you would know I'm still alive. It has been a very uneventful start to the new year, but I like it like that. No events are much better than a negative course of events, and I'm trying to remove all negativity from my life right now.
So that's a good thing.
Smooches!
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Labels: Christmas, family life
I hope everyone had a Very Merry Christmas. We had a wonderful time.
We went to Mom #2's parents' house for breakfast (delicious bacon, homemade waffles, and homemade biscuits and gravy) and then to my sister's house for dinner. Dinner was potluck style since my sister doesn't really cook. We brought the turkey. (I simply must laugh every time I say that we brought the turkey to Christmas dinner - LOL)
This is the first super-big holiday since my mom and dad have separated, and Dad in true difficult man fashion, showed up very late and then refused to eat, but we had a good time anyway.
Here's a photo of us all sans Dad at my sister's house. Mom #2's family doesn't really take the time to do photos, but I hope to change that in the upcoming new year. They are very nice people, just more private, I guess.
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Labels: Christmas, extended family, family life, financial, photo
I thought I'd give you a little tour of some of our inside Christmas decorations. There are lots more lights and stuff outside, but it's too cold to go out. It's about 40 degrees today, and while that may not be cold for some, it's freezing to me and I am not interested in getting all bundled up and going out into the elements.
It's supposed to get back into the 70s later this week, so I'll try to get the outside shots then.
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